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Take your joy to the next level

Hey hey hey. 😃 Good morning from this side to y'all ❣️ Yes,the night was far spent and the day is quite promising..and trust me,it's not time to stuff yourself up with inspirational quotes that has a list of thousands things to do or not do to keep your joy at its normal level.. Your joy is your responsibility,I mean apart from what you are told to do while you read the book,your joy will elevate to it's peak if you only live your life in a way that pleases your heart. The greatest happiness you can ever have is deciding to be Happy..not depending on situations to dictate what your mood is like... Not allowing people ride you to and fro... It's high time you smile broadly even when you don't feel like it,accept the mistakes people blame on you,even when it wasn't your fault... Don't let anyone tamper with your joy. It's priceless,only when you help it get to it's fullest extent. Nice having you here.. Virthzblogspot cares

Count(quotes of the day)

Look into the mirror and smile widely to yourself..smile,you made it to another beautiful morning, dwelling on what you couldn't achieve would do you No good,pick up from where you stopped,greater steps awaits you,you have gone too far to quit...shake off that failure..the success is a stone throw away. Virthz.blogspot.com

Dressing hacks

You don't need 1million clothes to be a good dresser,those few you have are enough..just learn to use them well,they add to your esteem especially when you value them a lot Take an appropriate care of all of your clothes Sew up any part that is about to tear off  Add some colours to some of them,by sewing in some piece of beautiful Ankara material on your trousers, shirts etc Wear them with dignity. Remember,it's not about what you own,but how you value them that matters . "If you have something of good quality and take care of it you'll have it forever,but when you don't mismanage it,it'll rust"

How to handle fear

There are lots of books, messages, podcasts and thousands of means where we can read on that topic,and really..they aid a lot But can I tell you that,few months after reading those books, listening to those audio messages and all of that,80% of what you learnt clear off your memory? I know I sound so untrue in a way,but trust me.. experience has taught a lot...and you who is a reading type can testify to this. Yes it's good to get informed,I'm not trying to discourage anybody from doing so but, immediate actions is what will help you digest all you've learnt. Here are few ways -write down just one thing you fear a lot Could be that you are afraid of leaving the circle,your comfort zone -sit down and think deeply about every single reason of why you fear it -ask yourself if moving on with it will better or mar your life You don't need 50 things to do to overcome fear,the less it is,and the more you put in great effort,the result will show up unnoticed  -Write out what yo

Quotes

Revealing what you don't have built inside you will not only bring you depression,but will make you loam about with guilt of showcasing what you really don't have

It's in the words

#Quotes of the day, nobody wants to be around someone who's esteem is sick,you'll depend on everyone and everything to help you get better,speak goods words into your life...the pride lies there. Mymeblog

Reality

You'll dress up and leave your house, thinking the dress you have on is will be loved my many,your hairdo will be admired by many,your smiles, walking style and everything that makes you up.but the moment you step out,your minds starts to play a game with you... pushing out negative thoughts out of your mind,each stare, gesture and manner of speaking will refer criticism to you. Your mind will settle on the worst of yourself, making any form of admiration a mirage to you,or probably a show to make you feel alright. .. Yes right,the reality might be that people doesn't actually love you the way you perceived they should,but you have to get things right..draw out the reality you want to see, regardless of what may seem to be ..it's your life we're talking about here. Tell it to yourself,hold on to the reality you want, it's all about your happiness.. pursue it

Dealing with self

This part is the most difficult part of life,where you can't control how you feel towards other's opinions about what you do or generally who you are. What you hear gets to your heart,and really affects everything you do or say.you are down in pain of what doesn't matter. Because it appears like it matters,you get all worked up trying to put everything in order, trying to please just everyone that comes your way.which of course is an impossible mission,well unless you are ready to die untimely.. because suicide awaits you. Your self is the problem,I mean,really..are you 100 in 1?.. You can't ever fulfill every promises,so why go ahead trying to make it all work out ..and allow self(low self-esteem, painful inferiority complex) to eat you up? Stay true to yourself, accept yourself..yes, accept that imperfect you, because you forever won't be all perfect You'll make mistakes,but those mistakes aren't the who you are. They all are phases you'll surely go th

Reassurance

Many great achievements you see today on social media are as a result of true determination to prosper. It doesn't just happen in a blink of an eye, except for few ones that are illegal. But my focus is on the leafy but unproductive ones,the achievements that seems genuine,true and real. They show them off to the whole people, acting the whole drama that comes with it,but believe me you,those aren't real. They only do it to try to keep up with the pace of life,to make sure they fit in in the run ,yeah no one wants to be left behind,so whichever way they can try to stay in line,they do it They all live fake social lifestyle,just to make people regard them as AMONG . But truth be told,it's better you are known for having nothing,than known as someone rich but later when the coverage are down be discovered as a nothing. There's no reason to discourage the little earners with your mirage you claim to be wealth to you. And you who's about to give up on yourself,be assure

Mind tip

"your happiness is your full responsibility,and  is got from a Total amount of love you shower yourself" live out your best today #mymeblog.com at its best