"It does not hurt at all,it's not parasitic on me".Well,does that describe how you look at inferiority complex as a result of low self-esteem?,I bet it does.We look for excuses on a daily basis to hide under and fold our arms, waiting for the harm to disappear naturally out of our lives.But you need no one to tell you the issue of low self-esteem is solved mindfully.Its solved when you decide to roll up your sleeves and pick the towel you threw in to fight till it gives way for a better esteem you desire.Magic is real, but magic is hard work,first,you believe that it would work when you fling the Magic wand towards what you are hoping to transform,then the magic happens,then you arrange your mind to grasp the whole idea so it doesn't overwhelm you.I mean,magics doesn't come to us easily,it's hard work,then success,so when we actually want to get this magic done,we have to really prepare for it.Because lack of preparations helps one end up in a dead end,yes, ri
Talking about yourself with confidence and true respect will not only boost your esteem but make people respect you,your decisions and everything about you . You owe nobody any humility, because by letting people regard you as important first,it makes criticism get to you faster than when you praise yourself by yourself. "Guard your heart with all diligence,your life is tied to it" this quote is got from the Bible,yeah although it was paraphrased... It says when your heart is out there for people to use and unuse,hurts and pain will never be scarce around you. What they say,how they say it, everything will matter to you. And when people find out low self-esteem is your weakness, they'll try to pull you down the more. In my other blog that was folded,or rather anything that happened to it I just can't tell..but it suddenly wiped off,I wrote; "to your self esteem is tied self Discovery" because you find out that when you have finally discovered many things abo
There are lots of books, messages, podcasts and thousands of means where we can read on that topic,and really..they aid a lot But can I tell you that,few months after reading those books, listening to those audio messages and all of that,80% of what you learnt clear off your memory? I know I sound so untrue in a way,but trust me.. experience has taught a lot...and you who is a reading type can testify to this. Yes it's good to get informed,I'm not trying to discourage anybody from doing so but, immediate actions is what will help you digest all you've learnt. Here are few ways -write down just one thing you fear a lot Could be that you are afraid of leaving the circle,your comfort zone -sit down and think deeply about every single reason of why you fear it -ask yourself if moving on with it will better or mar your life You don't need 50 things to do to overcome fear,the less it is,and the more you put in great effort,the result will show up unnoticed -Write out what yo
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