BELLA'S FREE TRY

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She longed for more,get more out of herself.Reach out to more people in her field of study.Her eyes once brightened at the sight of Emotional intelligence by David Goleman.The Book inspired her to get her emotions into good use,she totally knew she could do more than just sit around and let circumstances dictate her feelings and all that.She wanted to be true to herself,feel like herself in general.And feel ok to be herself.One thing she hid from herself since early teenage.On that faithless day,Bella trusted her instincts and took the big chunk of step to stand up for herself when she encountered an emotional blackmail.Long story cut short,she is still recovering from the bruises she sustained that very day.Her heart literally broke into tiny pieces the very moment that word "you" came fiercely at her."You?,who do you even think you are not to be talked to?,what is giving you the mind?".Bella realised she actually was a total NOBODY.What came over you in the first place?You clearly knew their target was your self-esteem,and without any shield you went on to fight.Thank your stars that you didn't get deeply hurt.
Bella,you deserve more than you can think, just lay down your head and think of how to go about it.

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Chiamaka said…
Good job ��
August 1, 2023 at 3:14 AM
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