THE NEWLYWEDS CONTINUED

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 The enthusiasm that comes with acquiring a new feat, learning a new language, relocating or some other achievements that could stir excessive Joy in one can leave curiosity in the high.This is proven through the process of getting married,after the supposed introduction and native marriage,the white wedding follows suit.This is where the couples can't almost contain the Joy within to accept the realities of finally having each other.Truth is,when there are no long term plans on how to retain this joy,it wouldn't hesitate to fly off like the festive seasons does(Well,at least the meals eaten cannot be forgotten in a hurry).fact is,we all need to develop a back up plans on trivial things in our lives,yes,the excitement is not criticized,but letting it overwhelm us is what pulls us down in the long run,the NEWLYWEDS need not stay long doing honeymoon for months, knowing fully well they have each other for forever,the luxury got during the honeymoon could be an investment wasted,take time, you'd discover you can eat the fat meat later.Think,yes think it through.


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