Be yourself

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Admire people,but never in your life wish to be like them,I mean... being all they are.
Yes you can have a model and desire to be as successful as they are,but trying hard to have their kind of looks,dress like them and possess their spec of dressing is not worth it.
Theres still enough space out there for you to live out your unique lifestyle,inspire someone to be who they are,not to be like you.
Reason is because,you'll feel more depressed when you can't have all that the person you are copying has,but being content with who you are,what you have and all of that will save you a lot.

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